Accepting the possible

Feb. 28, 2014

Hi,

Early in 2013, I wrote about the importance of having one idea. 

The truth is all of us have many ideas.  We come up with possible solutions to problems and concerns all the time.

Problem
The problem is that most of us have been put-down so often for opening our mouths and allowing our thoughts to come-forth that we have become quiet.

This is very dangerous.  We are the answer to someone’s prayer.  We are the energy that unites with other energies to lift our world out of darkness into the Light.

We cannot afford to be silent even when we, our Selves, think our idea isn’t worthy.

Solution
The solution has two parts, perhaps more:

  • know that we are loved by God and therefore, have been gifted with many talents and skills including the skill of problem-solving
  • clear our space, including our inner-space, of negative energies.

Accept Who You Are Really
I know I keep harping on this, but this knowing will give you strength and courage.  Do the work in my book, Who Are You Really, or the work that has similar focus by other authors and persons of good will.

Clearing Space
Quietly keep your distance from critical, defeatists persons.  Keep your physical space including your car, clean and well maintained.  Follow the Twelve Step Programs mandate to change your playmates and playgrounds.

If you find that much about your life is toxic, like your job, your family, your church, your friends, then its time to quietly make some moves.

Let’s ask the angels for help with both of these ideas.

Angel Help

Angels of all of us,

Accepting that God loves us is difficult.  Make us know that this is so.  Let us know that because this is so we are powerful, creative, talented, skilled individuals.

Accepting that we are needed because we are the answer to someone’s prayer is, also, difficult.  Help us recognize and accept our personal value and worthiness.  Never let us forget that this is so: we are the answer to someone’s prayer; we are worthy and valuable.

We recognize that we must use our skill of empathy.  We must recognize and accept that there are toxic persons and situations in our life and world.  We accept the wisdom of acceptance instead of denial.  Help us to know when toxicity is present and give us the knowledge to deal with it.

Surround us with the protection of the Light.  Help us to accept the information that flows to us constantly and consistently.  Let us recognize truth.

I speak this word for all who are open and receptive to it.  I speak this word for all who desire to recognize and accept Truth, for it is from the Truth that all good flows including health, prosperity, empowering relationships and worthy contributions.

With great gratitude and thanksgiving, we accept Truth.  And so it is. 

Blessed be,

Barbara

Contact me at Spreadlight@bellsouth.net

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Let Go of Toxicity

Feb. 14, 2014

Hi,

I’ve just listened to a story I constantly hear:

My client desperately seeks acceptance from those who want nothing to do with her.  This person has been tormented by this group for years.  She can’t accept that this group has closed its doors to her, that they enjoy her discomfort and that they purposefully go about the business of making her miserable.

This group is the popular one, the one everyone wants to be part of.  My client can’t see that the members of this group are mean and toxic.  In fact, they are aggressively abusive to not only my client but to many others.

You see, my client can’t stand rejection or aloneness.

One Solution

Even though she’s been advised to find new interests and to participate in new activities; even though it’s been explained to her that by so doing she will find new friends, she still returns to this same story, this same group.  Her actions remind me of an addict’s: they know the substance is harmful, but return to it over and over.

Let us ask the angels to help us let go of toxicity, accept change and do what is best for us.

Ask the Angels

Angels of all of us,

Sometimes, we humans constantly beat our heads against the same door.  We do this even when it’s obvious that our heads are getting hurt.

Help us to recognize that if the door is meant for us, it will open easily and quickly as soon as we knock.

Turn us from doors that are toxic, that bring us harm and that cause us unhappiness.  Lead us to doors that welcome us, that cause us be in touch with those who accept us and that bring the true joy of knowing that we are the beloved of God.

Angels of all of us, this is Barbara.  I speak the word for all of us who are open and receptive to it.  I speak for all who desire the truth, for it is from the truth that health, prosperity, healthy relationships and success comes.

Angels of all of us,

Right here and now, we leave the cliques who torture us, who reject us, who behave aggressively toward us.  We stand tall as our own person, a person blessed by many talents and gifts, a person who is the beloved of God.

We accept our role as creators, organizers and leaders.  We recognize that we are valuable and have no need to beg anyone for acceptance.

We rejoice in who we are.  We give thanks for your support and nurturance.  We are grateful for who we are.

And so it is.

Peace,

Barbara